Prom Spot - The Ultimate Prom Guide (for the 'Rents)

Ah, prom -- the dress, the corsage, the hotel rooms, the older dates, the drinking, and the curfew. Don't worry; we've got some tips on how to navigate through the toughest decisions and how to compromise with your promgoer.

The Budget
Between clothing, accessories, prom tickets, and limo rentals, prom can cost a small fortune. But don't feel pressured to spend more than you can afford. Talk with your teen about how much you're willing to pitch in and what they need to cover.

The Attire
Tuxedos are pretty standard for the guys. If your son already has one at home from a wedding or a bar mitzvah, then he's getting off easy. But for the non-owner, tux rentals can be costly (depending on style and color), so shop around for a good deal. Just like guys, girls want to look their best too! To ensure that your daughter picks a dress that you're comfortable with, take a shopping trip together. Not only is it fun, it's a good bonding experience. When choosing styles, be sure you and your child know the school rules on what's allowed -- many forbid showing midriffs, having super high-cut dresses, wearing hats, or carrying canes.

The Transportation
If your child is driving their friends, they're (okay, you're) responsible for whatever happens in their car. Set the rules: seat belts and no drinking. Make sure you're available in case anything goes wrong. Another option: renting. This way, none of the kids has to drive. A one-night rental costs around $400.

Checking In
To keep tabs on your teen throughout the night, ask them to check in when they arrive at prom, when they leave for the after-party, and when they're heading home. They'll be less likely to act irresponsibly if they know you're expecting to hear from them.

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-- Tia Albright

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