Prom Spot - Q&A: Prom Dates: Can I Dance With Other Guys?

Q. What are the rules about dancing with other guys at the prom? I love to dance, but my date is a total disaster on the dance floor.

A. There are no hard and fast rules, but you'll have to prep your guy well in advance. If he's dead set against dancing, tell him that you live to dance and then ask if he would mind if you danced with other people (emphasizing as friends). Letting him know now will prevent miscommunication and hurt feelings on prom night.

If it's more a case of two left feet than cold feet, you might want to give him a few pointers before the big night. After all, it's not his fault if his moves aren't smooth. While you may be mortified by his moves, try to be encouraging. Whatever you do, resist the urge to break into uncontrollable laughter. You don't want to give the poor guy a complex now, do you? Set a time to meet at his or your house for a quick lesson. If need be, teach him to slow dance and save the fast dances for another time. Almost anyone can learn how to shuffle back and forth to a slow song. Just remember to be patient. By the time prom rolls around, you'll be glad you put in the extra effort.